The morning of the wedding is an exciting and emotional time, especially for the bridesmaids who are there to support the bride through it all. It's your job to help make sure everything runs smoothly, and that the bride is calm, happy, and ready for the big day. With so much to remember, it can be easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of the morning. That’s where BLOW ME comes in! This handy acronym is your go-to guide to have you and the bride prepared on the wedding day.
"B" is for Bouquet out of water – a little detail that might slip through the cracks on the big day! While the bouquet is usually kept in water to stay fresh, you’ll want to take it out about 30 minutes before the ceremony. This way, the flowers stay gorgeous, but the stems are dry and won’t drip water all over the bride's stunning dress.
As a bridesmaid, it's a fun (and easy) task to gently remind the bride when it's time to pull the bouquet out of the vase. Maybe even offer to do it for her while she sips on some bubbly! Keep some tissues handy for any stray droplets, and voilà, the bouquet will be good to go for all those Instagram-worthy photos and the big aisle moment!
"L" is for Lady Garden Low – and yes, that’s exactly what it sounds like! When holding the bouquet, the natural instinct is to keep it up near the chest, but trust us, that's not where it belongs. The key to nailing those all-important wedding photos is to keep the bouquet down low, near the "lady garden." This simple tip makes all the difference, making sure the dress takes center stage without the bouquet covering the stunning details.
Think of it as "hips, not tits"—a fun little phrase that’s easy to remember. It may feel strange at first, but it’s all about keeping the bouquet at a flattering height. Not only does this help the bride show off her beautiful gown, but it also ensures the bouquet stays in proportion with the rest of the outfit. You’ll be amazed at how this small adjustment makes the photos look polished, elegant, and picture-perfect. So, remind the bride and your fellow bridesmaids to keep it low and let the dresses and flowers work their magic.
"O" is for One hour before, be ready to go – and this is all about giving yourselves a little breathing room on the big day! The excitement and chaos of wedding morning can be a whirlwind, and the last thing anyone wants is a last-minute scramble. That’s why it’s a good idea to have the bride fully ready to go at least one hour before the ceremony.
Being ready ahead of time gives everyone a chance to relax, take a deep breath, and soak in those final pre-wedding moments. It also means you’ve got a buffer if something unexpected pops up—whether it's a minor makeup touch-up, a forgotten accessory, or just a moment to calm the nerves. Plus, it leaves plenty of time for any final photos, hugs, or even a glass of bubbly before the "I dos." So, remind the bride and the squad to stick to that one-hour rule and keep things smooth, calm, and stress-free!
“W” stands for Wrists and Ankles, and it's a detail that can make all the difference in those wedding photos! First thing in the morning, have the bride and bridesmaids remove any watches, hair ties, scrunchies, or bracelets that could indent or mark the skin, which can be surprisingly noticeable in close-up shots. Plus, no one wants to see a stray hair bobble sneaking into those elegant wrist shots!
By getting this done early, the skin has time to settle, leaving everyone’s wrists and ankles looking smooth and photo ready. It’s one of those small but significant things you don’t want to overlook! Plus, a final check closer to the ceremony ensures that no sneaky scrunchies or forgotten bracelets are lingering.
“M” is for Move the engagement ring to the other hand — a small but important detail for the wedding day! Just before the ceremony, make sure the bride moves her engagement ring from her left hand to her right. This leaves her ring finger free and ready for the wedding band to slide on during the ceremony.
It’s an easy step to overlook in the rush of the day, but you don’t want any fumbling at the altar. Plus, it ensures that the engagement ring won’t steal the spotlight in photos of the wedding band exchange! Afterwards, she can move both rings back to the left hand, stacking them as a perfect symbol of her new status as a married woman.
"E" stands for Energy—and it's one of the most important things to focus on during the morning of the wedding. As bridesmaids, you’re not just helping with dresses, flowers, and makeup—you’re also responsible for setting the tone for the day. From the moment the bride wakes up, it’s your job to keep the vibe positive and fun. Whether it’s blasting a playlist of her favorite tunes, telling funny stories, or just keeping the mood light, you’re there to make sure everyone feels good.
Make sure there’s plenty of laughter, keep any nerves at bay, and help the bride stay calm and excited. If someone’s feeling tense or stressed, shift the focus back to the fun of the day ahead. The energy you bring in the morning will carry through the entire wedding day, so keep things upbeat, supportive, and joyful—after all, this is one of the most memorable mornings of her life!
Date Posted: Friday 8th November 2024
Author: Lauren Dalrymple
